2 months ago i was living as a batchelorette. Dating and spending much of my time at my new boyfriends house but i still had my own house. Its nothing special but it was mine :) I had enough room for me, my crafts and my kitten (taya). Than all of a sudden i turn around and there 5 people livinging in my home and i cant even breath deeply without bumping into something. One of my good girl friends was having some issues at home and needed a place to stay and then my boy friend (J) is getting his things packed up to move in as well. So it went from me to - Me, J, his 4 year old daughter, my friend and her 3 year old daughter inside my very narrow 2 bedroom townhouse. Oh and i cant forget about the kitten that came along with them.
I have spent every spare moment trying to get a well organized house from organized to overwhelming back to organized! Not an easy taks when trying to accomidate 3 homes worth of furniture into one. Finally 2 weeks ago i accomplished my goal and had a spot for everything (jumped up and down with joy, just cause thats what i do), followed by a very bizzy week at work, only to find out that my new "roomates" cant pick up after themselves (had a bit of a cry fest, just cause thats what i do). J felt bad cause he know how i like to have my home but he still hasnt figured out where i put everything and he was worried to put it in the wrong spot and well my friend is just plain lazy. So once again i kick everyone out of the house cause they frustrate the heck out of me, I spend an entire friday night re-cleaning my house back into a home. (yes thats how i spend my friday nights, im super cool like that)!
Last night J looked over at me from the other end of the couch and said "So this is what its like to live together" I looked back at him with a very confuzzed look on my face, He says "your friend has not been home all week! Look around the house is still clean, things are where they are subposed to be and there are no dishes in the kitchen". I look around the house and realize he was right my friend had been staying the nights with her new "male friend" and had not been there at all other than to maybe grab clothes. A big grin spread accross my face seeing that all my hard work was not for nothing yet again.
J leanes over tells me he loves me and the fact that we are together, kisses me than lets me get back to my tv show.
Longest post ever I know but i wanted to get it down cause it made me smile :)
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